Wednesday, May 28, 2008

Memory

This article is to be revised....as I was too sleepy while I was writting

Our brains are perfectly designed to store and memorise stories; some good and of course, some bad.

I sometimes found that it is very simple to keep thinking of the bad memory that was created by someone. At the same time, it is also amazing that the one who made such bad memory can easily delete that part off his/her head.

For example;
Situation: A was dumped by B

The first things that will definitely comes to A's mind will be "B hurts me bad". Then there will be another questions as "What's wrong with me?", "What makes he dumps me?" and bla bla bla to be coming up.
On the other hand, B will surely forget what he did to A in a short while.

Situation: C received a hand from D
Of course, C will be very thankful of D....but not too long, the feeling will be blurred as time passes by.

On another side, D might be sad, kept asking him/herself how come C easily forget the favour he/she made.

Let's get back to the reality and remain living at present.
We can also live our lives with memories...but not to letting the memory hurts us.

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